Let's get to know our neighbours

Real conversations. Shared tea. United communities.

What is this?

Division happens when we stop talking to each other.

"Uniting the Colours" is about bringing neighbours together over a cuppa. Not to change minds, but to remember we're all just people living on the same street, the same neighbourhood, the same city.

A simple idea with real power: Invite your neighbours over for a cup of tea. Get to know them. That's it.

No speeches. No agendas. Because when you actually talk to people - really talk to them - something shifts.

A cuppa and a chat, because what could be more British than that?

Why now?

We feel more divided than ever, but not because we disagree. We're divided because we don't know each other. We talk about "them" instead of talking to them. We assume instead of asking.

"Uniting the Colours" is about building bridges in the most ordinary, powerful way possible: by being good neighbours again.

Real change starts local

You can't change the national conversation. But you can change your street. You can get to know your neighbours. You can listen to their real concerns, share your own, and remember that you're on the same side - the side of community.

That's how division ends. Not with grand gestures. With tea*.

1. Download
Grab our free invite and bunting designs. Note down where and when your gathering will take place.

2. Invite
Pop invites through letterboxes or share them digitally. Keep it simple: "Tea on Saturday at number 12. Come say hello."

3. Host

Set out some tea and biscuits or snacks (*or alternative hot drinks). Welcome people when they show up. Let conversations happen naturally. Check out our hosting tips.

4. Connect

Listen. Share. Learn who your neighbours really are. That's where everything changes.

The simple truth

You live beside people you don't know. They live next to you, probably wondering about the same things.

Maybe it's time to meet over a cup of tea.

What you'll gain

Invite template - Ready to print

Union flag bunting - Print and make your own or buy from this woman-owned Etsy shop

Conversation starter cards - Lighthearted questions to help break the ice

Social media graphics - Share and encourage others to join in

Simple organiser's guide - Practical tips for hosting

Everything is free. Download the resources.

Have questions?

Who's organising this?

You are. This is a community-led movement. We're just providing the tools and inspiration.

Do I need lots of people?

No. Start with your immediate neighbours. Quality over quantity. Even a small gathering creates real connection.

What if people don't show up?

That's okay. Put up a sign saying "tea and chat" and leave the kettle on. People are curious. They'll come.

What if conversations get political or tense?

Keep it simple: this isn't about solving big issues. It's about remembering each other are human. Steer back to personal stories, experiences, and what you have in common.

What do I have to consider if I plan a street party?

Street parties on quiet streets that do not affect the wider road network count as small events. If you're planning a small event for neighbours, apply to hold a street party through your local council. Tell your council about your event 4 to 12 weeks before it happens.

Can I adapt this for my community?

Absolutely. Community centre event? School gathering? Workplace? The principle is the same: bring people together, no agenda, just conversation.

Share your pics!

Whether you get chatting to a stranger over a cuppa or host a tea party, share your pics on social media using #UnitingTheColours. Let's brighten up our feeds!

Every conversation counts. Every neighbour matters. Every cup of tea is a small act of unity.

It's time for tea.

For organisations

Contact unitingthecolours@gmail.com to get more information on how to roll out this initiative in your workplaces.

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